Triangulation station

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Anyone who knows me knows I like triangles. Cushions, stationary, jewellery, art work, music, ornaments, almost a tattoo. Two divergent points come to meet in another, providing a base of stability while signalling a new direction to a middle ground. A discourse between opposing sides. The trio that often appears in psychology: past, present, therapy. The synthesis of data from different perspectives and across methodologies. A trig point at the hill top, navigating a way through landscapes. 

 It's a lovely shape. 
    

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